So off we all went to Lowes to buy lumber.
He built 3 beds out of 2x6 lumber (just rectangles, and the mattress lies on the floor on the inside). He took down the cribs, then drilled the beds into the wall...certainly don't need them picking up and pushing lumber AND mattresses around the room.
They did ok. They were all asleep by 9, which is, in fact, better than 10. They mostly screamed and cried, and finally as I sat outside their door out of sight they calmed down.
The problem is that I just don't know how to attack this whole thing. Let them play? Keep the door open (but then they get out)? Shut the door (but then they freak out)? Yell? Spank? Ignore? Soothe? Sit in the room with them? Sit outside the door out of sight?
They did not have naps today (we were at dads, so we drove home and they napped in the car). Tonight they did pretty well, and were all asleep by 830, and were mostly quiet by 8.
My current plan of attack is to keep putting them to bed at 730 and let them play and giggle until 8. (But I still have the problem of them kind of freaking out with the door entirely shut, and I can't leave it open...) After 800 I will start to crack down on them...whatever that means. The past few nights as they have finally calmed down I have stood outside their door where they can't see me (so don't know when I leave), but I will kind of hang out for a few minutes to make sure they have calmed down. But I don't want to HAVE to be outside their door for them to calm down and go to sleep. I don't know.
I just went in to take some pictures to post, and found I couldn't open the door. So I reached my hand in and shoved. N had passed out in front of the door. So cute.
This first pic just shows how stripped down their bedroom is...there used to be shelves all the way down the wall...but I'm worried they would climb them, and I certainly can't put clothes on them anymore, so they've all been pulled out. Maybe someday I will be able to put them in again. And this room/bed setup is probably going to last a year. Next summer we will work on lofts and rearranging again when they are a bit older.